Keeping your personal life private on Facebook using limited profiles

December 4, 2009

I was starting to accept that my Facebook personal life would careen into my business life.  Though I’ve worked hard to keep my personal and business lives separate, my use of “Friends only” in my privacy settings was starting to lose its effectiveness.  I fell into awkward ground this past July when I started to manage corporate Facebook fan pages on behalf of clients.

To manage a clients’ page, I have to be befriend the administrator on Facebook.

The reverse holds true as well.  For me to provide administrative rights back to clients for pages I’d set up, I can not do this until we are “friends”.  And though I do truly like all my clients, having instant deep friendship presents its awkward moments.

But there is a fix for all this.  You can add your business connections to Facebook and keep your privacy too.

As heavy social networker, I definitely use Facebook to hold pieces of my personal life.  I mostly connect with friends and family, and a number former colleagues with whom I share a healthy, personal respect for.  Like many people, Facebook holds my wedding photos, major milestones my children’s lives and really bad high school pictures.  I’ve even used Facebook to reunite my 14 cousins through a group and there within we share all our vintage photos of our mutual grandparents.

But there is a fix for all this.

There is a little known Facebook feature called a limited profile that can provide greater privacy.

Creating limited profiles and managing them is not intuitive so up till now I’ve added people to my limited profile but have not specified what this limited profile can and can not see.  And worth noting is that if you do not take an extra step to exclude your limited profile from key information, then your ‘limited profile’ friends see just as much as your regular ones.

As my business keeps creeping in on my personal life, and local politicians want to become ‘friends’, I decided to master this feature.

Here are a the steps:

First assign a friend to the limited profile list.

You can do this one of two ways:

  1. When you accept the friendship of someone, you have an option to add them to a list.  There will be a Facebook added list name (or tag) called ‘limited profile’.
  2. Alternatively, you can go into your ‘friends’ section and choose ‘limited profile’, a menu pick on the left hand side, and then add friends to this list.

With a list of limited profile chosen people – you then need to identify what this list will NOT see in your Facebook profile.  Remember, the default is that they can see everything your friends see until you specify what they can not see.

Indicate which profile sections are excluded from your limited profile.

In Settings (top right hand corner), choose privacy settings.

Customize limited profile Among your privacy settings, choose “profile”.  Under ‘basic’, you will see a number of sections of your profile.

Using the pull down menu, choose ‘customize’.    [that was always the menu pick that trumped me .. it was not obvious that I had to customize to specify limited profile]

You will get a little popup box asking who can see this section.  Go to the red “except these people” section and start typing “limited profile”.

Exeception limited profile

The information you may want to hold dear are:

*  Status and links
*  Some photos tagged of me
*  Some photo albums
*  Videos tagged about me

Note – you can also exclude your limited profile list from contact information section too. Just follow the same logic as above.

And voila!  You now can mix some business with pleasure on Facebook.

Do note:  For those who want to delve deeper into Facebook privacy, I found an excellent blog post about this a while back called 10 privacy settings every Facebook user should know by Nick O’Neill.

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Laurie Dillon-Schalk is the Chief Marketing Strategist and founder of Social Wisdom - a Toronto based digital marketing agency that helps firms and individuals use social media and the web wisely.

You can find Laurie on Twitter at twitter.com/Ldillonschalk or on her blog at Socialwisdom.ca


Dunbar’s no and the impact of social networking [for @josephdee @davidfeldt : re active network]

October 26, 2009

I’ve never written a post in response to a tweet before. Great concept @josephdee given I’ve got more than 140 char to share.

At #casecamp, Matt Wyndowe from Facebook labs shared Dr. Dunbar’s number 150 and that there is a new active network size of about 40 – 50.

Since then, I have spent a lot of time thinking about Dr. Dunbar’s number of 150 [the maximum size of a managed human network] and whether or not his theories have adequately accounted for the impact social networking is having on relationship management.  This led to some very interesting research findings – that basically state that Dr. Dunbar’s number still holds true – people still have relatively small ‘groomed’ or managed networks.

That said, social networking has allowed people to manage more casual relationships than ever before — enter the ‘active network’. In other words, each person can manage closer to Dr. Dunbar’s number than ever before.   Also – it is worth mentioning, although small, that there are gender differences in network sizes.  Women are more enthusiastic online communicators and so manage slightly larger active networks.

Some resources on the matter:

First – @josephdee’s post talks to a new relationship size since the advent of social networking – that is the Active facebook network:  40.

Second – A post by the Economist, “Primates on Facebook”, dated Feb 26th 2009, now behind the subscription firewall, is a great short article of  the Economist asking Facebook’s in-house sociologist, Cameron Marlowe, to review of Dr. Dunbar’s theories in light of social networking.  The conclusion is that Dr. Dunbar’s number holds firm:

“What mainly goes up..  is not the core network but the number of casual contacts that people track more passively. This corroborates Dr Marsden’s ideas about core networks, since even those Facebook users with the most friends communicate only with a relatively small number of them.”

Third – now – even better than the Economist’s article is the blog post by the actual socialologist – Cameron Marlow who answers the question “is Facebook increasing the size of people’s personal networks?”  and in the process he provides excellent visuals on the matter.

network-comparisonactive-network-size1


Authentic Vin Diesel – a beautiful voice on Facebook’s no. 3 most popular page

October 19, 2009

With 6.5 million fans, Vin Diesel comes third only after a pop icon and the president of the US.   Yup – Vin Diesel.  And I never thought I’d write something to the tune of ‘everything we need to know we can learn from Vin Diesel’ article.

I reported on the top five fan pages just a while back and I couldn’t believe that Vin Diesel was no. 3.    What – when did that happen?   I’ve always like Vin Diesel after seeing xxx but I would not figured he would surpass all other celebrities, actors, etc. in facebook fans.

vin dieselWell after becoming a fan myself – I can see.  He is doing the writing and he is authentic and responsive.   I really do think he is doing the writing.   He is really reaching his long tail of enthusiasts and updating them on movie scripts,  and sequels.  Whats more is he is engaging – he invites people to submit photos, he adds personal photos of his lunch with his father, and adds notes under every photo.

His pages are digested.   Proof?  He updates a fan about the next Riddick script coming in on the weekend and getting 15, 637 likes (and counting).  Notice how he knows how to write the post so you have to click ‘read more’ to get the big news?

When we think about how to write for social media – he really exemplifies a lot.    Open ended questions, suggestions on how to contribute, personal & authentic voice, and lots of responses to inquiries and popular requests.   Pretty neat.


Top Five Facebook Fan Pages in terms of active fan base

September 23, 2009

From Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook’s presentation .  Top 5 facebook fan pages in terms of fan base.

She talks about the importance of allowing people to interact with brands the way they interact with friends and family.

1. Micheal Jackson = 10.2 million fans
2. Barack Obama = 6.7 million fans
3. Vin Diesel (?!) = 6.3 million fans
4. Facebook = 5.1 million fans
5. Megan Fox (already?) = 4.9 million fans
10. Starbucks = 3.8 million fans


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